Personal Values Alignment in Love Relationships goes side by side with Individual Truth. Individual truth is part of our personal make-up along with personal values. Individual truth is defined by past experiences and often are played out in a movie of the mind. Individual truth superimposed the RIGHT truth defined by the individual onto a situation or conversation. Why is it possible that the other person can be right? Because their individual truth perspective is not taken into account. We are attracted to people who have similar bases of individual truth.